You’ll likely relive parts of the gang bang over and over again, that night and for the following few days (I still do, especially when I masturbate). Hopefully, the experience will be a positive one for you – you’re likely to want to do another one, and soon.
You’ll be standing around with several other men, naked, with their cocks out. The center is probably going to want two cocks in her mouth or perhaps even in one of her other orifices at the same time. That means your cock will be in contact with someone else’s. If you’re homophobic or have an aversion to these kinds of things, you’re likely to have some issues. If you believe this to be the case, you should probably give second thoughts to volunteering to participate in a gang bang. A gang bang is not the place for that kind of drama.
If you have a significant other, be sure and reconnect with them after the event is over, either via phone if they’re not present or perhaps through a date where the two of you can be alone, followed up by sex between just the two of you
Performance anxiety can be an issue for some guys as well. This is not uncommon at all, so be prepared for it. You may wish to avail yourself of Viagra or similar drugs to last a bit longer. If you need to step back and just watch for a few minutes, that’s perfectly fine. And, of course, if there are fluffers there, they can usually provide you with some assistance.
You’ll need to get tested. If you don’t wish to have your doctor know about this, you can have tests done at local Planned Parenthood or public health facilities. Keep in mind that some test results may take several days to arrive, so get tested well in advance (or in accordance with any rules the Coordinator or Center has provided you).
You must come away with the understanding that there’s nothing wrong with engaging in a gang bang or any other group sex event if everyone who was there was a willing, consensual participant
Show up on time, be prepared to have fun and respect the rules the center sets – that’s the most critical thing you can do. Finally, If you’re going to be unable to make the bang once you’ve indicated that you’ll be there, notify the Coordinator, though.
Once the bang is over, be supportive of the center and not critical or negative. If you have a criticism about the way things were run or something that occurred during the event itself, get with the Coordinator shortly after it is over and discuss your concerns. Don’t leave everyone with a big pile of negative energy!
Your role is not one of participant – you should not be one of the cocks penetrating the center. If desired, arrange to swap out with another participant if you wish to play. You can’t monitor and fuck at the same time.
The experiencia okcupid safety of the center is your ultimate priority . Discuss the rules and safety procedures with her prior to the beginning of the GB. Ask her what her safewords are, what alternate signs she wishes to use, and if she has any physical limitations that you need to take into account.
Agree on a time frame for breaks if it is to be an extended event. Mine was scheduled to last a maximum of four hours, with a break halfway through to allow everyone to cool down, rehydrate, use the bathroom, etc.